Ok I will make this quick.
First let me say I love my sisters and brother. But they do some of the dumbest things sometimes. My sister is 21, a junior at an out of state college and is a typical student. I am 30, been to college, balanced my life while in school. I worked, had a social life, kept up my grades and traveled the world and graduated and still always made time for family.
My sister was one of the first 3 people I told I was pregnant. She immediately said she was excited and wanted to help with the shower. This was back in June. I told her she could help only if she wanted to and if it wouldn't disturb her school schedule. Fast forward to August, I talked to her to see if I could buy her plane ticket in September once she started school and had her school schedule. I worked my shower date around her being home for it. I put a deposit on a shower location.
First week of September I called her to confirm that dates she agreed on before I booked the flight. I originally wanted her to fly in on a Saturday but she said she didn't have class on Friday so to book a Friday flight. Again I asked her if she was sure that it wasn't going to mess with homework or a quiz. No, no, no she assured me it would be fine. I booked the flight. I am on the phone with her as I book it so she can choose the flight time. ahhh done. My sister is coming home in November. Or so I thought.
Late September she calls and wants me to see about changing her flight so she can join a sorority her final big moment of joining is the same weekend of my shower. I was annoyed cause I had already checked her off my taken care of list. But whatever, I called the airline. Its a $150 to change her flight each way. I told her she could do this but she would have to pay the difference. No, never mind she says leave it as is. Ok.
Today I get an email, an EMAIL from her saying she has decided she really wants to stay at school so she can join. And if she misses it then she cannot join again until next year. She loves me and the baby and she feels so bad...blah, blah, blah.
She said she emailed me so I would yell at her. WTF?!?! She gotta talk to me at somepoint.
Needless to say I am disappointed and my feeling are hurt. I wanted her to be home for the shower. I just told her I understood her choice. Oh and she also did say she would pay me back for the flight plus the cancellation fee.
But still. I am totally annoyed and mad. To be honest she is lucky she is in another state cause I want slap the shit of out her. I hate when people don't follow through on things.
I had planned on giving baby orange my sister first name as a middle name. But I am so annoyed right now I am tempted to change my mind. But I hoping in few days I will have calmed down.
OK I am done with my vent. Anyone else annoyed today? Please feel free to share.